drinkin
August 4, 2009
I have a bit of a tic (my head jerks a foot to the left) that manifests itself when someone butchers the English language (I’m not as particular about other languages). I remember once talking with Elden and Kim, when Ian toddled up to us and said something cute, but mis-conjugated his verb. Kim and I corrected him in unison, while Elden backed away slowly.
Last weekend my neighbors, Karl and Caroline, hosted a neighborhood BBQ in their back yard. I sat on some rocks with other neighborhood men, talking about manly stuff, and Maddy came over to sit with me for a bit. I asked her something about her cup full of Diet Coke, and Maddy, who is generally a fine student, athlete, and scholar, said “I haven’t drinkin any yet.”
I’m a little embarrassed to say my first response (apart from my head spinning completely around twice) was to look at my fellow men to see if they had noticed.
Then I started laughing. “What?” she said?
“You said ‘drinkin.'”
“That’s a word.”
“Yeah, in retard land. Go ask your mom if it’s a word.”
So she went over to where the women were sitting (the segregation is not doctrinal, but natural). I heard her say that she used a word and that I was mean and told her she was dumb. Which is not strictly true.
“What’s the word?” asked Kim.
“Drinkin.” But, spoken alone like that, it sounded like “drinking.” Kim nodded, and I could tell she was saying “duh, of course that’s a word. Don’t pay any attention to that crank.”
So I yelled across the lawn “Ask her to use it in a sentence!” Which she did.
From where I was sitting, I couldn’t hear the sentence Maddy used, but I could tell from the way Kim’s head jerked a foot to the left (we have the same tic) and the way she looked like she had just thrown up in her mouth a little that Maddy had used the same sentence I had heard.
See, it’s the sweet little parenting techniques that make the difference.
August 4, 2009 at 12:02 pm
Sweeeeeeet!! My kid’s do that to me too. “Dad called me dumb”. Even putting it in context doesn’t save me every time though. Not everyone can be an english major.
August 4, 2009 at 12:09 pm
“Not everyone can be an english major.”
yes they can.
August 4, 2009 at 1:02 pm
They would have kicked me out in a week. Lack of interest in being gramatically correct.
August 4, 2009 at 12:03 pm
I actually enjoy the misconjugations, mispronunciations, and made-up words my kids use. But mine are younger than yours, so it’s still cute. My favorite is that my five-year-old uses the word “drinky” instead of thirsty. He understands thirsty but doesn’t quite speak it yet. I love it.
My two-year-old recently started saying “that’s awesome” in response to her most frequent question, “what you doing, daddy?”
In context: “what you doing daddy?”
“Trimming my toenails.”
“Oh. That’s awesome.”
August 4, 2009 at 12:08 pm
yes mark, saying drinky when you’re two years old is cute. when maddy was two she would say “hold you” with her arms outstretched when she wanted us to pick her up, because we would always say “oh, you want me to hold you?” when she held her arms out. it was cute.
she’s not two anymore.
August 4, 2009 at 12:33 pm
Are you certain that “drinkin” or perhaps “drinken” isn’t the correct old English conjugation but didn’t hold over the way “eaten” did? Because were it a hot dog rather than a beverage, “I haven’t eaten any yet” would be correct.
Moreover, unlike France and Spain and North Korea, we don’t have a language academy, so “correct” is a subjective term anyway. Sure, you can consult the style manuals, but they don’t all get along. Just ask the journalists forced to use serial commas.
August 4, 2009 at 12:34 pm
i am not sure. and i agree, “correct” may have (has) lost much of its meaning.
but it’s like obscenity–i know it when i see it.
August 4, 2009 at 12:38 pm
Since when has that held you back from using it?
August 4, 2009 at 3:22 pm
Can you see “obscenity”? I think it was pornography that Justice Stewart said he’d know it when he saw it.
August 4, 2009 at 3:27 pm
well, as long as we’re splitting hairs, it was “hard core” pornography old potter was talking about, but most commentary on the case conflates hard core pornography and obscenity.
August 4, 2009 at 12:31 pm
Everyone can be an English major? D*mn. Then what did I spend all that tuition money on? I should have kept the receipt. No, I do not want store credit.
August 4, 2009 at 12:36 pm
kp, i’m not saying everyone can “magically” be an english major. i’m saying everyone CAN (or could have). it’s not like being a doctor–english departments will take ANYBODY.
August 4, 2009 at 1:03 pm
That is true, you don’t even have to take a test to get in! Plus I was only required to take one (1) grammar class to complete my degree at a prominent local university.
August 4, 2009 at 12:36 pm
We can all be English majors, but like all English majors, we’ll need to develop other marketable skills if we want to earn a living.
August 4, 2009 at 1:03 pm
What does “marketable” mean?
August 4, 2009 at 12:34 pm
It could have been worse. If she had been from around here, she would have said “I haven’t drinkin any yet, but I’m fixin’ to.”
August 4, 2009 at 12:36 pm
and if i were from around there, my head wouldn’t have spun around when she said it.
August 4, 2009 at 12:55 pm
Only spun? I think your head would have exploded, no make that sploded.
August 4, 2009 at 1:05 pm
I loved “fixin to” when we lived in Missouri. I didn’t get away with saying it at home, thank goodness.
August 4, 2009 at 1:24 pm
Steve… I love that people here in Missouri drop the “A” in about. I’m ’bout to go and get me a drink. Or as you said. I’m fixin to get me a hot dog and a beer.
Love it. (Not really)
August 4, 2009 at 1:17 pm
Irregardless, I aint accordinated.
(runs away snickering while dug’s head spins)
August 4, 2009 at 2:07 pm
My 9 year old neice drops the g off the end of words too. “this is borin” “I am drinkin this”, etc. My sister has actually ENCOURAGED this as well as other mispronunciations (like crew-de-ton instead of crouton) because she thinks it’s cute. Not for a nine year old!! I of course cannot stand it, and although I have no tic, I have to correct her every time or else my head will swell up and eventually explode.
August 4, 2009 at 2:47 pm
yeah, here’s my problem, linfin–it’s not the dropping of the the g that i have a problem with. drinkin isn’t a case of a dropped g, it’s a made up conjugation of drink. the simple past tense of drink is drank. you know. as opposed to “drinkin.”
what your niece does IS cute.
August 4, 2009 at 3:31 pm
Okay, just to drive you crazy, but are you saying Maddie should have said, “I haven’t drank any yet”? Shouldn’t it be the perfect tense, “I haven’t drunk any yet”?
I’m no English major, but I declare that it sounds less twangy.
August 4, 2009 at 3:35 pm
sophia, yes, good point, drunk is the participle form, and the one she should have used. i was just pointing out that the simple past tense was drank, and that her sin was not dropping a g, but rather something far more egregious.
August 4, 2009 at 4:12 pm
“Something far more egregious”?… Was she getting drunk?
Sorry. Couldn’t resist.
August 4, 2009 at 2:53 pm
Maybe her drink wasn’t unthawed yet so she couldn’t have drinken it yet. Just sayin’.
August 4, 2009 at 4:58 pm
Love your stories … Just another reason why you and Kim are so perfect for each other!
August 4, 2009 at 5:09 pm
shoot her like a moose.
August 8, 2009 at 10:21 am
When I was at dinner with friends and an intelligent man with aspirations to become a lawyer used “drinkin” in a parallel context, I had a hard time keeping a straight face. When he used it again, I thought of you and collapsed in laughter (in my brain, of course. I haven’t yet gotten to the point of correcting my friends).